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Deep connection. Endless conversation.

Banter is an expertly curated matchmaking service founded by Sara Moses, that lets chemistry speak for itself. By fostering honest conversation and playful curiosity, we help people connect the way they were meant to — naturally.

Why work with a matchmaker?

If you’re here, you’ve already invested deeply—in your work, your wellbeing, and your future. Your time isn’t just limited, it’s precious. So why take chances on love? A matchmaker brings refined strategy, and human intuition to the one area algorithms can’t. It’s far from desperate—it’s intentional. And extraordinary love is our expertise.
Our Process
~ Love is in the Air ~
    • Love Is In The Air

      "I am grateful to say that Banter has made a romantic of me, once again. I was skeptical at first, but Sara asked questions to make me feel seen, understood, and ready to commit to the right person - and thanks to Banter, I found her. We're getting a dog!"
      Michael D. Private Matchmaking Client
    • Love Is In The Air

      "Sara has an extraordinary talent for reading people and creating real alignment. Every introduction felt considered, respectful, and genuinely aligned with my values.”
      Kristen J. Private matchmaking client
    • Love Is In The Air

      "Sara didn’t just introduce me to someone—I felt truly understood throughout the process. Thanks to her care and intuition, I found a meaningful, lasting connection. I found my person."
      David P. Private matchmaking client
    • Love Is In The Air

      Sara is incredibly intuitive, passionate, and very determined to find her clients a match. Over the years, I have used a couple of Matchmakers and Sara was the third. It took a lot for me to sign up with a third Matchmaker, but we had a great first meeting and she started working for me even before I hired her! I was really impressed, and she turned out to be far the best Matchmaker I have ever used. She really got to know who I am as an individual, and was determined to find me my ideal match. What also set her apart was her inclusion and insistence of a top notch relationship coach. I really didn't think I needed one, but you don't know what you don't know! Because of the relationship coach she set me up with, I became very clear what my needs are in a mate. I would have completely overlooked this wonderful man that Sara found for me if I hadn't worked with this relationship coach. I couldn't be happier, and G-d willing, this will be my soulmate for life.
      Lara B. Private matchmaking client
~ Love is in the Air ~

Good Chemistry Was Never About A Checklist

We're on a mission to retire the checklists, disarm the pretense, and empower you to ask for what (and who) you really want. Because when you ask the right questions, and lead with authenticity, connection isn't forced—it's inevitable. In fact, it's hard to resist.
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Love Should Never Cost You Your Authenticity

"As a dedicated girl mom with a Master's in psychology, I created Banter to empower people to connect with curiosity, candor, and confidence — and let conversation be a space where your truest self is not just safe, but utterly magnetic.
I want to set a precedent for myself, my daughters, and my community that the love we deserve should not make us smaller — but reflect our brightest, most expansive selves. But before love, comes banter."
Sara Moses
Sara MosesCertified Matchmaker & Science-Based Relationship CoachFounder of Banter

Certified by the Global Love Institute

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It Takes Two

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